The following 60-second coaching vignette has been excerpted from my book, Your One-Minute Job Finding Coach:
The paradox of making New Year’s resolutions and setting goals is you cannot live in the present while thinking about the future. To live in the here and now is where it’s at. “It is not the attainment of the goal that matters,” said British writer and social reformer Havelock Ellis, “it is the things that are met with by the way.”
To handle things you meet with along the way to a goal is like keeping your eye on the ball. A batter focuses on whacking a pitched ball rather than on the bases he hopes to race around when and if he should hit a homer.
These are reasons why setting goals and striving to meet them doesn’t work for everyone. Where is it written that you have to set a goal and then feel defeated when you cannot reach it? An alternate to goal setting is to create positive statements and repeat them often. Rather than saying “the goal of my business is to net 80-thousand dollars next year,” try an affirmation like this: “I’m in the here and now, generating successful strategies while handling important details.”
Then act as if your proclamation has already come to pass. To write and repeat positive statements can change behavior as you start acting like the winner you introduced in your positive statement.
You’ll find more about setting goals in the chapter titled “Taking Care of Number One” in my book, Your One-Minute Job Finding Coach. Click here to order.
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