When I ask my job finding cients what their major concern is about interviewing, many talk about how anxious they are beforehand.
I explain that feeling a bit uncomfortable before being interrogated is natural. Where is it written that you must not feel a bit nervous before an interview? Being uptight can result in big benefits.
Have you ever ask why you experience anticipatory stress? The answer is that you’re about to do something you don’t want to do. So a moderate amount of discomfort in the form of apprehension before interviewing is par for the course.
So what are the “big benefits” from feeling uptight? Being uncomfortable will motivate you to do something so you’ll feel more comfortable. If life were to be hassle free, you’d never get what you want or do the things necessary to get ahead. That’s because you would always go with the flow and there would be little incentive to venture out of the box to go out and do something when you don’t want to.
A difficult task gets easier with practice. So practice the technique of self-exposure as often as possible. That means to do the thing you’re resisting—like going on interviews—while enduring the discomfort. As stated above, being uncomfortable about doing something will motivate you to do it and get it over with so you’ll feel more comfortable. Difficult tasks get easier with practice.
However, one thing you can’t practice for is when you lose a job. Downsizings and off-shoring are beyond your control. But if you suspect your company plans “a reduction in head count” as corporate America loves to call it, you should read this related article—”What to Do After Getting a Pink Slip”—on this site.
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